Unhappiness Caused by Illicit Gazing Monday, November 24, 2008
Posted by Administrator 2 in Marriage, Sin.trackback
by Huda
“It is very difficult to remove your gaze once it has already settled on a ghayr mahram.
If your gaze is protected, your heart remains pure, but if you do not protect your gaze, the heart becomes impure and filthy.
Once a person finds a ghayr mahram attractive, slowly and with time, they will stop finding their marital partner attractive, and love for them will begin to decrease, giving rise to arguments and disunity within the marriage.
If you safeguard your gaze, you will only have room in your heart for your marital partner.
Many homes have been broken due to non-observance of the rules of hijab by both men and women, yet they remain ignorant of the cause. May Allah ta’aala protect us.”
This post hits the nail on the head. May Allah ta’ala protect us.
Jazakallah. This is a malady which is ever increasing. May Allah ta’ala give us the ability to conqueor our nafs; by making effort on our hearts through following the prescriptions from our Shaykh hafizahullah.
Jazakallah for bringing these words of Shaykh to light. Very beneficial.